(original posting: September 2008)
When domesticating a wild animal one must keep in mind the importance of preserving the richness of being that characterizes that animal. If the specimen happens to be particularly unruly, one may be tempted to impose discipline through a regimen of punishments as a deterrent to unwanted behavior. This poses a problem as it is intended to "break" the beast, thereby damaging or destroying those aspects which make it desirable to begin with, and may simply create a being more ferocious and tyranical if it has a character strong enough to withstand the disciplinary onslaught. As it becomes embittered by harsh treatment and lovelessness, is may also become emboldened by failed attempts at controlling it's imposing hide. It is a recipe for creating a monster.
(If we find ourselves in the army however, one who is impossible to break during basic training would ironically be given a commanding post instead, where he or she would then be in charge of breaking others. We are after all hairless apes, hence the importance of love and kindness; this would offset the monstrous bitterness and venom of loveless discipline).
Far better is to trick a wiley animal into compliance, through the simple act of reward where it is deserved, and banishment (if only temporary) where it is deserved as well. BF Skinner established in the 40's that reinforcement is a far better way to shape behavior. Even pigeons can be taught complex behaviors this way, guiding missles for example, much less a lion, tiger, bear, or...human (ie: man)! Of course the shaping of an individual requires guidance toward a desired direction (ie: good behavior), so it is not simply a matter of blowing the subject off without explanation, but there should be an objective but kind explanation as to the reason behind the banishing. Maybe a disciplinary sandwich, consisting of a diplomatic and complimentary overture, then a solid blasting, closed with more diplomacy and conciliation.
This requires the trainer to dissociate him or herself from any egoic attachments or vanities, in order to countervail the most inevitable desire to retaliate in the face of some of the egregious insult that is hurled by any wild, undomesticated animal, like a monkey throwing its own shit. An imposing task yes, but an opportunity for the trainer to learn detachment as well, which helps build a shield against any random insult one may encounter in life down the road. It is, in fact, a win win situation, if both parties agree to the contract and avoid killing each other in the process.
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